A hundred years from now
it will not matter what my bank account was,
the sort of house I lived in,
or the kind of car I drove.
But the world may be different,
because I was important in the life of a child (Forest Witcraft)
The last month was quite hectic for me. Lots of projects required my attention, both in private life as in business. My work-life balance was under quite some pressure.
This week I had a nasty cold and didn’t feel too well. I think I was running a fever and was using one Kleenex tissue after the other. Smell and taste were also gone for a couple of days. This is the usual signal for me that I stretched it too far and need to slow down, recharge and get some rest. I know my body is delivering me a message and I need to take this seriously.
While cleaning up some files on my computer I found a photo of my little girl Rosanne. I remember taking this photo around her 2nd birthday and was struck (again) by the beauty of the composition. While looking at her photo I realized nothing is more important to me than seeing a smile on Rosanne’s face. I hope I will be around for a very long time to see that smile. That’s why I’m listening to my body if it’s giving me a signal to slow down.
Work is important, I like what I do. I also love to write for this blog, Personal Development is my passion and I love to share it with others. But my highest priority in life is with my family, with my wife Sigrid and daughter Rosanne. Nothing is more important than that. What good can I do if I’m never around and work all the time? What good can I do if I ignore my highest priority in life?
If you’ve read my article Feel Like a Child, Be a Child you already know that I think children are our greatest teachers. They teach us how to live in the moment, they teach us how to have fun and they teach us what our real priorities are. Rosanne is my teacher, my little Buddha. Right now she is teaching me what my priorities are and what is really important and what is not.
This article is dedicated to you Rosanne. I love you and I promise you to make enough time for you. I promise you to take care of myself. You are my highest priority in life. I promise you to be important in your life and be there whenever you need me.