Comments on: Stop blaming others and take control over your life http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/ Personal Development Blog, Life Coaching & Conscious Living Tue, 27 Jul 2010 13:37:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: The drama triangle: Persecutor, Rescuer and Victim | Authentic Self Coaching http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-1926 The drama triangle: Persecutor, Rescuer and Victim | Authentic Self Coaching Tue, 13 Jul 2010 13:39:20 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-1926 [...] patrick on July 13, 2010 In previous articles such as stop blaming others and take control over your life and stop complaining and be thankful for the things you have I talked about victimhood and how to [...] [...] patrick on July 13, 2010 In previous articles such as stop blaming others and take control over your life and stop complaining and be thankful for the things you have I talked about victimhood and how to [...]

]]> By: Stop complaining and be thankful for the things you have | Authentic Self Coaching http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-1779 Stop complaining and be thankful for the things you have | Authentic Self Coaching Thu, 20 May 2010 18:24:47 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-1779 [...] my article stop blaming others and take control over your life I wrote that one of the biggest personal development steps you can take is to stop being a victim. [...] [...] my article stop blaming others and take control over your life I wrote that one of the biggest personal development steps you can take is to stop being a victim. [...]

]]> By: How to be an entrepreneur and run your life as a business | Authentic Self Coaching http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-1630 How to be an entrepreneur and run your life as a business | Authentic Self Coaching Fri, 23 Apr 2010 09:58:09 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-1630 [...] responsibility. Take charge over your own life. Stop blaming others and take control over your life. Stop being a [...] [...] responsibility. Take charge over your own life. Stop blaming others and take control over your life. Stop being a [...]

]]> By: Pass judgement with curiosity and compassion | Authentic Self Coaching http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-1146 Pass judgement with curiosity and compassion | Authentic Self Coaching Tue, 09 Feb 2010 19:37:09 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-1146 [...] one of my recent articles, stop blaming others and take control over your life, I said that once you stop blaming others you will make a major step in your personal development. [...] [...] one of my recent articles, stop blaming others and take control over your life, I said that once you stop blaming others you will make a major step in your personal development. [...]

]]> By: Learn to say no and stay true to yourself http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-903 Learn to say no and stay true to yourself Fri, 11 Dec 2009 10:29:02 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-903 [...] like a Catch-22? Well, it’s not. In my Stop blaming others and take control over your life article I explained there are three conscious options to choose from if you do not like a situation [...] [...] like a Catch-22? Well, it’s not. In my Stop blaming others and take control over your life article I explained there are three conscious options to choose from if you do not like a situation [...]

]]> By: jonathan http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-503 jonathan Wed, 30 Sep 2009 12:08:17 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-503 "Blamestorming" is increasingly popular.. Where the matter cant be laid to rest until blame has been aportioned. Very harmful and unproductive “Blamestorming” is increasingly popular.. Where the matter cant be laid to rest until blame has been aportioned. Very harmful and unproductive

]]> By: Jason Cooper http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-498 Jason Cooper Tue, 29 Sep 2009 21:19:21 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-498 Invoke the positive psychology of "I am god!", in which case you are totally responsible for every action you make in life. Along with that comes total dependance of achieving happiness within oneself because once you depend on another to provide just that, you are heading for certain misery. Great post, Patrick! Invoke the positive psychology of “I am god!”, in which case you are totally responsible for every action you make in life. Along with that comes total dependance of achieving happiness within oneself because once you depend on another to provide just that, you are heading for certain misery.

Great post, Patrick!

]]> By: Nothing profound http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-497 Nothing profound Tue, 29 Sep 2009 15:38:57 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-497 Absolutely. "Happiness depends upon ourselves." Aristotle said that over 2000 years ago. Every kindergartener should know that by now. Absolutely. “Happiness depends upon ourselves.” Aristotle said that over 2000 years ago. Every kindergartener should know that by now.

]]> By: Find yourself with a smile... http://patrickschriel.com/2009/09/25/stop-blaming-others-and-take-control-over-your-life/comment-page-1/#comment-489 Find yourself with a smile... Sat, 26 Sep 2009 08:41:22 +0000 http://patrickschriel.com/?p=1199#comment-489 Amen! Victimhood is so popular in America... everybody wants to be part of the group that had it the worst... We need to kick these useless thinking processes in the ass! Not only does reliving failures create suffering in the moment... it also creates the environment for more failure/victimhood/suffering in the future. When we take charge of our results, though... then we gain true power in our lives. If we are going to review situations in our background thinking... they may as well be positive ones! :-) Time complaining is better spent getting into a positive space and taking action toward your chosen goal. keep smiling, Ben Amen!

Victimhood is so popular in America… everybody wants to be part of the group that had it the worst…

We need to kick these useless thinking processes in the ass!

Not only does reliving failures create suffering in the moment… it also creates the environment for more failure/victimhood/suffering in the future.

When we take charge of our results, though… then we gain true power in our lives. If we are going to review situations in our background thinking… they may as well be positive ones! :-)

Time complaining is better spent getting into a positive space and taking action toward your chosen goal.

keep smiling,

Ben

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